I know it’s not Wednesday. But you know what, I think you guys can deal with it and forgive me right? It’s been sort of a crazy week at work (and I promise that once it kind of gets smoothed over I will tell you about it) but rest assured, there is a ton of stuff going on, and I’m sorry if you feel neglected.
So let’s do some catching up.
Numero uno, have you met my favorite song yet? I heard it like a week-and-a-half ago, and it’s currently climbing the charts, like number 8 on Billboard, and a little higher up on Spotify’s list. The song is the perfect mix of blue-eyed soul, plus a really sweet reggae feel that I haven’t heard in a while.
Behold ‘Rude’ by Magic! The group releases the album July 1st, and once that happens, I will definitely be looking for their shows. Their lead singer, in particular, is so interesting to look at, and the way he moves is really unique. I just loved discovering new loves!
Wedding Updates + a legitimate dilemma.
- I called last week to check on my dress, and to be completely honest, the situation with my dress is cutting it really close, and I’m not comfortable with that, but I really can’t do much about it now.
- My wedding bands came in yesterday. I was tempted to go pick them up so I can put them on, but is that bad luck? Did anyone else “test” their wedding bands and wear them before they actually got married?
- I’m not sure what I’m going to do about my last name, and I’m actually lost. Custom would dictate that I take his. But I like my last name. In fact, I love my last name. I love my family, and I love my father, and part of me might mourn the loss of that. Do I want to keep it completely? I don’t know. Do I want to have part of my new husband’s name? Yes, because we’re a family now. But I’m not sure how to make that happen. Please let me know if you have any cool ideas.
- The invites are sorta ready. I have the .tif file for them, and I am exploring some printing options for them. If you will recall, I wanted to have them sent out by now, but things don’t work out the way you want them when you’re getting married. Learn that, and you will have a really easy time 🙂
- Me and Austin may have a big (non-baby) announcement soon (calm down), but I can’t tell you yet.
Okay, what’s new with you? What should I do about my last name?
I definitely tried on my wedding band before the big day and so far so good! 😉 I’m not very superstitious though! As far as your last name, I had a really hard time making that decision too. I didn’t want to hyphenate, so I just took my maiden name as a second middle name. I know some people drop their middle name as well and take their maiden name as their new middle name. Just some options to consider!
Thank you! And thank you for commenting, I totally love your blog!
My Mom took her maiden name as her middle name when she got married. I am not sure that helps with the dilemma or not. I totally get crazy weeks. TGIF!
RIGHT! I need a big big big glass of wine.
My SIL did the same thing that fizz and crosscountry suggested and it works very well for her! I agree that you have a kick ass last name!:)
Can’t wait to hear/read the announcement!!!:)
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I love reading all about how other people are planning their weddings! Keep the wedding posts coming 🙂
I will I will!
I kept my last name in marriage. I love my last name and am proud of it. All of my personal accomplishments are in my last name and I don’t feel as if I needed to take a new last name. My husband is perfectly fine with this because as he says “it’s just a name” and he says as long as he has me that is enough for him!
Good to hear from the other side of it as well! I have not even given it any thought since last week! I’ve been too busy!