Hey hey hey!
So before anything else, if you’re reading from anywhere in the southeast, or from my island of Haiti (fun fact: I am a delightful mix, 50/50 of Haitian and Trinidadian), I hope you’ve managed to stay safe. Please keep Haiti in your thoughts. Haiti doesn’t need this in the least, but the storm has managed to cause some major fatalities and wipe out crops according to major news sources. Please check on any relatives you may have on the island. Social media is an excellent tool at times like this!
I promised a little something at least once a week while I’m still recovering. I’m officially four weeks out from when Liam was born, and by the time you read this, he will be one month old. One month since I met the little guy. It’s really hard to believe, and since we’ve come home, I can’t say we’ve fallen into very much of a schedule, except that he likes to go to bed by 1 am, and he’s been that way pretty much since he was born.
Before I went out on maternity leave (I’m taking a full 12 weeks, not sure if I’ve mentioned that, but I’ve gotten that question a fair bit), I wondered what I might do all day. I didn’t think maternity leave would be a vacation, but I wondered if I might have some free time to write letters to grandparents, catch up on emails, in addition to getting to know baby Liam and things, but my time has been allocated a little differently than I thought.
What we do during our day.
Keep in mind, we are still figuring one another out. This will change I’m sure. So we start our day around 5:45-6:00am. That’s kind of when he does his first big day nursing session, and when the first light hits. Usually while I nurse him, I’ll watch some Hulu, eat a quick protein bar, try and drink some water because I’m usually thirsty asf, and depending on how he’s feeling, we’ll either go back to sleep for a second, OR he may want some snuggles until he eats again around 8:30 or 8:45. He’s been doing this thing lately where he kind of wants to hang out with me, see dad off to work, and poop a few times. (I’m being so serious, I’ve never met a human being who can poop more. Apparently breast milk goes through the little ones quickly, so that’s why they’re ready to eat an hour and a half to two hours after they’ve started to eat the last time.) So after this, usually I can get him to sleep, and I can sleep again for just a pinch. He may fuss, and again, a few diapers usually are in there. I’ll try to get in the shower and put on some fresh clothes, because it makes me feel somewhat attractive to wash ick off of me. I’ve managed to shave a few times (big deal at this time!), and by the time I get some fresh clothes on, it’s usually time to nurse again. I’m usually starving at this point, but every other day or so, I plan a field trip for me and the babe, whether it’s something we need to research or pick up, and I try to tack a quick lunch somewhere onto that so that we can get out and see some grownups. The favorite the past few times has been Whole Foods, but we managed to squeeze in BOGO sushi with a friend yesterday which was a big deal. By the time we get home from our field trip – say we went to the paper store for a wedding present, then to the baby store for some nipple cream, then to Whole Foods, it’s usually almost dinner time, and usually baby Liam likes to fuss for a little while before he starts to get sleepy, and snoozes until pops gets home from the gym. Nurse somewhere in there. Usually, we throw something quick together for dinner (which has been made infinitely easier by the kindness of family, friends, and Y folks who’ve dropped off salads and casseroles), and we head out for a walk around the neighborhood so I can get some steps, and Austin can get a little cardio in, especially on a day where he’s skipped it at the gym. I’ll nurse him one more time, and usually this is the last time for the evening, around 10:30pm. I pump after this feeding to store just a teeny bit of milk for the following night, and we make up a bottle for Austin to do the final feeding around 12 or 12:30am. Sometimes, while Austin’s doing that, I’ll do some yoga down on the ground right next to the bed, and focus on some really, really, gentle stuff, and I always finish up with some pelvic floor work.
It’s crazy. I just wrote this massive paragraph detailing what we do. We do so much, and yet, sometimes at the end of the day it feels like we’ve done so little. You’d think I would actually get something done, but most days, I feel like I barely have time to brush my teeth! The field trips are good because it give me a reason to put a clean shirt on and pull my hair back into an acceptable top knot, but it’s so weird to not put on a dress and go to a meeting. Right now, this is our normal, and it’s so interesting how hard and how natural it’s seemed at the same time.
Okay, now that I’ve rambled on and on and on…
Tell me something random!
-I found a 48-oz bottle of kombucha for consumption on our field trip yesterday. I may save the bottle for if I ever get around to making my own home brew. It seems kind of tricky, but another instructor at the Y does it, and I’m thinking about asking her to see her lab. Maybe I’ll make that one of my next field trips?
-I finished Breaking Bad again. I maintain that it is one of the very best shows I have ever seen in my life. Todd is the most bizarre character I think a writer has ever created. I may write a post just to discuss BB here in a few weeks.
-I am always, always hungry, which is apparently a thing when you breastfeed. I am desperately shoving anything in my mouth that’s high in fat and protein, and guzzling liquids. But it’s CONSTANT!